People drive to NYC why? The traffic is horrendous, in spite of how safe it actually is, it still feels unsafe and you really have to be on guard. Parking is a nightmare, if you can find a curbside spot its outrageous and the time is limited during normal business hours. The parking signs are extremely ambiguous. On a personal note, I parked under conflicting "no parking" "no standing" signs and my car was towed, 3 hours $200.00 and a long trip from the West Village to the impound somewhere in the 70s at the West Side Highway, I got my car back. NYPD had even broken into my car, in order to "secure some valuables" that they saw. Oh and the parking ticket was 95.00 American Dollars, so, with postage, I paid just under three hundred dollars for some bs signage. Then there is the issue of parking garages, which, admittedly I have found a website to get parking for 12 to 18 dollars for 12 hours.
Then there is Metro North, really a great idea, but VERY expensive and not really all that comfortable. To ride 70 miles from Poughkeepsie NY to Grand Central costs 37.06 peak and 27.56 off peak for a round trip ticket. For a monthly unlimited pass you are talking 367.00 dollars. Then a monthly unlimited bus and subway pass costs 90.00 a month. Also, parking at the Poughkeepsie train station was 3.00 a day. All totaled for a monthly expense of around 520.00.
So, driving sucks and is expensive and public transportation is also expensive, yet people are still drawn to NY, for work and entertainment. People are willing to endure some serious inconveniences, homeless on the subway, noise, expensive food, and so on. They endure because NY is amazing, its a great place to work, find entertainment, you can find great food of any variety, an extreme variety of culture is everywhere.
Contrast with Jacksonville, the parking is cheap, its not hard to find no matter what anyone says. The public transportation is not expensive, although not abundant, with a little planning it can be integrated into a personal trip downtown.
I honestly think that anyone who says parking is their reason for not visiting downtown is making excuses!