P.S. What's really frustrating and sad to me, which is probably why I come across so cranky, is that, as a Dad who loves Downtown Jax, I'd love to be able to share that with my daughter. We have so much fun exploring Nashville, Savannah, St. Augustine, MidTown Atlanta, and other urban areas together. She's 9 now. When she was born, I thought, "Downtown is going to be so much fun for us by the time she's 3." And then, "Downtown is going to be so much for us by the time she's 6." And then, "Downtown is going to be so much fun for us by the she's 9." Half of her childhood has passed, and there's still park downtown I even feel safe taking her to. These are the real world consequences of the lack of urgency and progress. On the other end of the spectrum, you have retired folks living out their golden years being robbed of years of vibrancy. It's just sad.
^^^I actually share your *level* of frustration, but after having moved back here and living here now for almost 4 years now, I've learned that I come across as sour and uppity when I complain about our city or so much as draw any comparisons to elsewhere. I've learned to "appreciate" Jax for its ups and downs, but deep down I really think this place is about as frustrating a place as it gets.
The local "mentality" as well is really what contributes, I think, to a lot of this. Local people by and large simply do not care about the kinds of improvements and vision you and I might share for the place. They literally like Jax the way it is.
RAP enthusiasts literally think Avondale is equivalent to Savannah and so much Koolaid has been drunk that we'll never get truly good infill in Riverside/Avondale where it literally makes about the most sense.
The whole beaches is batsh*t crazy when it comes to NIMBYism so it will never properly develop.
Everyone I talk to outside of my little real estate circles thinks downtown is millions of homeless people and if you can't park in front of the doorway, it's not worth going to (that mentality actually affects some of my own co-workers and as we move buildings here soon there are some who are freaking out they may need to walk a block to their parking).
I run in multiple real estate groups and really not all of them care at all about downtown. Plenty of people are basically just involved in building suburban housing, often of relatively low quality. They have no idea what goes on downtown. I talk to plenty of people who have never really heard of "TOD" or concepts such as that we talk about on this forum...
And by and large, despite the fact that people do travel, it really does seem like people in general here quite literally have no idea what they're actually missing, or it just doesn't compute that we too could have things that other cities have.
I say all of this because I do think this mentality around here essentially allows the city to just carry on as horribly as it does. People just don't care.