Adam, I've recently considered getting an anti-body test. Will likely happen this month, because I do hope to do some travelling during the NFL season. Correct me if I'm mistaken, but from reading your posts on here for a few years, don't you have some medical concerns that would put you in more of a high-risk category, so you need to be a little more cautious. I'm not normally much of a social person anyhow, so avoiding crowds isn't usually a huge deal, but the NFL season is here and I will be in close prox. to strangers for about 4 hours a week for 10 weeks.
jaxo, I pretty much follow the guidelines as well and if requested to put on a mask, I do. I haven't run into it yet, but if a place requires a vax card, I just won't go.
With regards to the asymptomatic spreading, I've been pretty open with my circles, and if I know that I've been in contact with a + case, I just let them know that I have and it becomes their decision, not mine if I'm there. I totally get that my decision to stay un-vaxxed doesn't trump their decision to not be around me. I've been asked to not show up due to an admitted close contact. It is what it is; personal freedoms and all.
But the bear of this entire 'pandemic' is as you mentioned - we're still learning so much about what works, what doesn't, how long, best course of action, etc. and the goalposts continue to move.
To answer my own question, I'm pretty much back to living a normal life. The few inconveniences are just that, small inconveniences, and I've done a pretty good job of not making mountains out of a molehills.