I took my wife to Orsay last Tuesday (12/30) for our anniversary. I decided on the restaurant based on the recommendations in this thread, and because my wife had been to Chew on her own and enjoyed it. I was very impressed and pleased with the experience.
I used the online reservation form. It was a smooth and easy process. The option to order flowers for delivery to the restaurant was a nice touch as well, one that I took advantage of.
We started with the pate du jour, a duck liver pate, accompanied by a fig (I think) and mixed greens. I don't recall what else was in it, because I'm admittedly not a foodie, and when a list of ingredients gets thrown out there--try as I might to prevent it--my eyes just glaze over. It's involuntary. It wouldn't have mattered to know what I was tasting beyond the liver anyway, because I'm pretty sure my palate is made of pine bark.
*Edit- I realized in my attempt to be funny, I made it appear I didn't enjoy the pate: I did. It was very good.*
I had the duck breast. We were told it's the most popular item on the menu, and for good reason. It was amazing.
My wife had the cassoulet with duck leg confit (not on the online menu). I only had a bite, but it was just as good.
We finished with the vanilla bean creme brulee and the trio of homemade ice creams (still peppermint, eggnog, and gingerbread). The creme brulee was great, but the ice cream was the big winner. The peppermint flavor was probably our favorite.
I also can't say enough about the service. Our server was very attentive, although I didn't think so at first; keep reading, I'll explain.
I first thought our service appeared to be just a bit slow. Not horribly so--we never had to flag her down and ask for anything--but noticeably enough that a handful of times I wondered to myself where she was. I was aware that wait staff for nicer restaurants are typically less in-your-face, but this was different; not unfriendly or aloof, but just a little off.
In the end, it became clear she was giving us some additional space because of the occasion, and was trying to be as inobtrusive as possible.
That's the kicker; I had never mentioned the fact that it was our anniversary dinner. I'm sure the flowers tipped her off just a little, but she must have overheard us at some point because it never came up in conversation with her. After she presented the check and I forked over my card, she returned with the slip to sign and mentioned that one of our desserts would be comped for our anniversary. The realization of what she was doing all night finally dawned on me. I felt like an ass, but thankful I didn't voice any complaint, and made sure to tip well.
Thanks to everyone who recommended the place. We're now deciding when to go back!